
"So did we really need a study to tell us that
more than 40 percent of what you say in an e-mail is misunderstood? Well,
they did one anyway.
"How many of your friends have you only spoken with online? If 40 percent of your personality has gotten lost in the text transition, do these people even really know you? The people who dislike you via text, on message boards or chatrooms or whatever, is it because you're really incompatible? Or, is it because of the misunderstood 40 percent? And, what about the ones who like you?
"When someone speaks to you face-to-face, what percentage of the meaning is actually in the words, as opposed to the body language and tone of voice? Take a guess.
"It's
7 percent. The other
93 percent is nonverbal, according to
studies. No, I don't know how they arrived at that exact number. They have a machine or something. But we didn't need it. I mean, come on.
"When we're living in Text World, all that is stripped away. There's a weird side effect to it, too: absent a sense of the other person's mood, every line we read gets filtered through our own mood instead."